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Adolescence

Rules without relationship lead to rebellion.

Therapy with teenagers requires a careful balance of structure and authenticity.  Adolescents are navigating a complex and often overwhelming landscape of identity development, peer pressure, sexuality, emotional intensity, and emerging independence.  They are quick to detect inauthenticity, and they resist anything that feels patronizing or forced.  For therapy to be effective, the therapist must meet the teenager with genuine curiosity, respect, and a deep understanding of adolescent development.​

 

My sessions help teenagers express complex and repressed emotions like—anxiety, anger, fear, guilt, sadness or confusion in a safe, confidential space where they can explore and experiment expressing those feelings without fear of being judged or dismissed.  Their emotional landscape is shaped by a host of developmental stressors—academic pressures, social acceptance, shifting identity, and the physical transformations of adolescence.  These are frequently compounded by perceived parental expectations and a persistent sense of being unseen or misunderstood.

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 It is imperative as a therapist to be culturally fluent and demonstrate  the social language, digital and Ai technology and culture that shape their daily lives.  Fluency in this modern ecosystem is an essential bridge that must be crossed to build credibility and trust.  This process helps teens gain emotional insight, develop coping skills, and build a stronger sense of self.​

 

Therapy also plays a crucial role in helping teens repair or strengthen relationships with their parents.  Often, sessions include work on boundaries, communication, and mutual respect, helping both teen and parent understand each other in new ways.   Some sessions may call for parents to join with the permission of their sons or daughters.  When done right, therapy doesn’t just help teens “get through” adolescence—it empowers them to grow through it with clarity, resilience, and confidence.

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© 2025 Dr. Mark L. Brenner

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